Parashat Vayigash: The Trauma of Post-trauma

When we are busy blaming those who hurt us, we continue to let them control us.

Yair Caspi Dec 18, 2015 2:00 AM

Joseph bears a severe trauma from his childhood. His brothers tried to kill him, his father did not protect him, the brother who “showed compassion” for him sold him into slavery, his family forgot him.

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