Sounds like you stubbornness and arrogance has gotten you into deep doodoo. If I were you I'd sit down with the Palestinians and work out a deal immediately where you recognize their state and come up with realistic borders. As far as the settlers go, if they don't want to return to Israel and they want to live in what they call "Eretz Yisrael", let them stay where they are in Palestine. Israel has Arabs. Palestine can have Jews. No one ever said that Eretz Yisrael needs to be governed by Israel.
Opposition chairman Herzog visits Palestinian family wounded in arson attack (Haaretz)