Sorry to dispel Golan's naivete, but the prayer she says at the end of her Seder, is specifically regarding building the Messianic Temple where the arab Mosque now stands. If this will cause her intense guilt, then she should not use Judaism as part of her argumentation. The reform Judiasm of germany removed all mention of Zion form its liturgy. This perhaps would be the same course that Golan should take.
Report in Lebanon: Israel Air Force strikes Syria's Quneitra, 3 terror operatives killed (Haaretz)
from the article: Jerusalem Day celebrates an illusory unification