It is a symptom of "victim mind" to think that the blame is always on the other, and that we can somehow CONTROL the other. All we can do (Jews like Gideon Levy and you and me) is control OUR OWN behavior. If we act peacefully, propose a courageous peace plan (not based on fear and paranoia) - then it's likely the Palestinians will follow.
Israeli PM to Palestinian President Abbas: We must fight terror together (Haaretz)
from the article: The year of truth