Or better yet, go to one. In our custom it is the lady's choice to marry or not. THE MALE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL FINANCES, GOLD, DIAMONDS, HALLS, DRESSES, THE BRIDE's hair, HONEYMOON etc. Believe me when I say, there are many times I wish I was an American, where the bride's family pays for all :) You seem to think that all Arabs treat their women like crap, etc. Well, we're not Saudis, there are differences between Arab cultures. Don't be ignorant.
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