In your first post we both agree that the aid has nothing to do with diplomacy. The flotilla was a diplomatic fiasco on the part of Turkey BECAUSE Erdogan knew there were militants on board itching for a fight. What he did not foresee was the end result. Best is for apologies on both sides to each other and both countries compensate monetarily to the families. That is the FAIR and REASONABLE way to end the diplomatic row.
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from the article: Turkey: Israel earthquake aid won't ease diplomatic tension