My friend you are too subjective when you ask why does everyone hate us. NOT everybody hates the U.S. some of us only hate what you're doing in God's name. Human nature dictates that violence begets violence and you need look no further than the Israeli-Palistinian situation as evidence of that. Money and power are a disease of the human spirit as well and that is the real culprit behind all this. The reality is that there's bad people in every country on this planet, your's included and they must be put in check if we are ever to resolve our differences.
Netanyahu orders more demolitions of terrorists' homes in attempt to crack down on terror (Haaretz)
from the article: The U.S. removes the nuclear brakes