You've got it backwards. Force is not somehow justified or ruled out by the virtues of one's opponent, but simply by its utility. Claims to the contrary notwithstanding, Israel's use of force gained her nothing in 'Cast Lead' and cost her a great deal. It was a self-destructive act.
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