there is a word, not very popular among some people in the middle east, called compromise. once palestinians understand its meaning, if they really want their own state, they can have it, and live in peace with its most important neighbour. hate, on the other hand, the most used word, will lead you anywhere. the most emotionaly important piece of land is jerusalem, but even there compromise can be found. looks to me the problem is for you to mentalize that israel will exist whether you like it or not and get the best negociated deal you can, considering the mistrust from side to side.
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