You are not dealing with reality. There is no "mutual respect" since many Palestinians are not willing to accept the reality of the state of Israel. Therefore, any attempt by Obama and Hillary to impose a settlement will not succeed not only because of Israeli resistence but also due to the hostility of many Palestinians.
Route 1 to Jerusalem reopened to traffic as fire outside of Jerusalem continues (Haaretz)
from the article: Israel's U.S. envoy: 'No one can force us to make peace'