At least - as you mentioned - there are Israeli and Jewish moderates that you can differentiate from the extremists - which are only a small fringe - Let me ask you this? Where are the true Arab moderates who recognize the existence of a Jewish state between the Mediterranean sea and the west bank? Even those referred as moderates such as Abbas, Fayyad never accept Israel as the homeland of teh Jewish nation.
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