This lady asked 'very politely', didn't 'demand'. Sounds like most of the audience was charedi, so why not do the show in a way that is consistent with their values if you are able? I know that there are numerous situations of charedi coercion, but this is clearly not one of them. Stop being paranoid everyone. Choose your battles and fight the right ones.
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from the article: Female volunteer removed from circus stage after Haredi woman protests