On an individual level, you can be as kind and charitable and congenial as possible and still be hated. That being the case, having an enemy isn't your choice. It's theirs. Next year in Tel Aviv-Jaffa? I know you refuse to be their enemy Bradley, but are they still yours? Are you willing to give up Jerusalem to find out?
Israeli Air Force strikes two sites in Gaza in response to rocket fire (Haaretz)
from the article: I refuse to be your enemy