Allegiance is owed to those who earn it. Your demand for social cohesion is pie in the sky foolishness in the first place. Social cohesion between the ultra-religious and liberals, between hill top extremists and that part of the Israeli still sane? First demonstrate your humanity is not limited to your immediate family only, then ask for social cohesion.
Suspected Boko Haram suicide bombing kills 38, wounds 51 in Chad village (Reuters)
from the article: Israelis' ideal state: A country without criticism