The OU is an American institution and only 11% of the respondents were Israeli. In America and the UK, Orthodox women have as good an eduation as their husbands, and most have careers, although their families obviously do come first as is the case with any other mother. You seem to be describing the extreme right wing of Meah Shearim, not American, Canadian or British mainstream Orthodoxy.
Around 113 people reportedly died in shipwrecks between Libya and Italy throughout weekend (Reuters)
from the article: Do Orthodox couples have happier, sturdier marriages?