It all is really disgusting and stupid. This is something you don't do when you respect people. I am a secular Jew from a secular Jewish family. When I was 13 I myself decided not to have a bar mitzvah. Now I am a zionist Jew, but I almost never entered a synagogue except for weddings, etc. I never belonged to any synagogue or community. Sure I would have problems to marry in Israel. Believe me I would meet only one thing related in this article, I would automatically boycott the Rabinate and I would refuse to marry through an orthodox rabbi.
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from the article: So you think you are Jewish enough for an Israeli wedding? Prove it