Zack, I will do you the service of assuming you are marrying whomever you're marrying because you love her. I seriously doubt you are making a fundamental lifestyle choice to stick a finger in the eye of a movement you were never part of. And no one who reads this with any common sense will think any different. Don't blame the rabbinate for how you were raised and your own preferences and choices. If you want to kill your family's Judaism so be it. But don't evade the basic test of adulthood of accepting responsibility for your decisions. Grow up. Don't dump your choices and beliefs on others.
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from the article: Rabbinate no longer recognizes overseas conversions