You don't need to convince us - just check any of the scientific polls that demonstrate a healthy 70%+ support for two state solution with east Jerusalem. Problem is you need to cmvince Pals and Arab world who insist on absolute right of return for all pal diaspora to israel proper. Polls show that the support for a two state solution that involves the only viable solution- right of return to new pal state only recieves. Low to no support. Sugget that a reluctence to negotiate your extinction is a reasonable reaction.
from the article: Former Spanish PM: If Israel goes down, we all go down