Israel's threat is to destroy Iran's nuclear capacity. It is a RESPONSE to Iran's public goal of liquidating Israel. This response is limited to destroying the existential threat and has never targeted Iran as a country of its people. If you truly believe what you say, well you have been fooled many times. So, yes, shame on you. On the other hand, I doubt that your really believer your position. So, shame on you.
Israeli PM to Palestinian President Abbas: We must fight terror together (Haaretz)
from the article: Ahmadinejad: Israeli, U.S. threats don't affect Iranian policy