I find this a most stupid argument. So we do not expect them to accept us but what in reality does that really do? Nothing. The Jewish State is, you just have to deal with it one way or the other. Not accepting does not make it go away. It may make you feel better but in the end you have to be realistic however much you do or do not want it to be. It works for Israel too.
UN: At least 1,332 Iraqis killed by violence in July (AP)
from the article: The impossible forfeit