Just as your article states, there is no bridge strong enough or wide enough to gap the chasm between the Haredi world, and the rest of Jewry who choose to live, work, and function in the modern world. Don't waste time trying to build bridges. Disconnect completely from the Haredim, who will gladly take your money, while at the same time rejecting you as a "goy".
Roadside bomb kills five border officers in western Iraq (AP)
from the article: As New York Haredim multiply, Jewish Federation faces a quandary