One of the problems of MO yeshivas is they give kids a lot of knowledge, but miss the basics. Judaism is not about doing what one wants or likes, it is about doing what Hashem commanded us to do, which is recorded in written and oral Torah and explained by Chazal. In particular, it means following Rabbonim rather than our arbitrary wishes.
Riot police line up as fresh migrant protests erupt at Budapest railway station (Reuters)
from the article: You say women 'don't need' tefillin? Here's why I do