People identify with the Shalit family. They were suffering. Israelis are celebrating the release of Gilad Shalit. However, the released murderers will kill again. Of course we do not know who they will kill. So we cannot identify with these other families. What if they do not kill a member of someone else's family, but of your family? Would it still be a good deal?
from the article: Gilad Shalit's family leaves Jerusalem protest site to head home