I'm a religious Jew, a Chabadnik, and these people need to see that the only reason why Jews exist is to be a light among the nations. That is, we need to be within the secular culture but above it, and not completely isolate ourselves from popular norms.
U.S. State Dept. 'deeply concerned' about Israel's approval of new settlement construction (Reuters)
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