Don't lose hope. Those who don't want to listen (on both sides) are outsiders mostly. They vent on here a lot. Some of them have moved to Israel, unfortunately. If Israel looks to be blowing up, they can move back to the US. So they don't need to listen, just shout. The Palestinians have extremists too, but the ones who were born where they live are willing to compromise if they are offered a future. That means a viable state, or a share in the Israeli state. Israel gets to pick. The ones who are stuck living in places they never wanted to be need some help to have a future. The world (including the Arab/Muslim world) will cooperate with helping them if Israel takes moral responsibility.
Jerusalem suburb of Even Sapir evacuated as wildfire spreads (Haaretz)
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