Mr Schonfield, change must come not from secular law, but from within the Jewish community. That change will be grounded in three powerful Jewish traditions: a respect for medicine, sexual liberalism, and feminism. Have you read Miriam Pollack? I have, and it changed my life. "...my Jewishness prizes dissent and open debate." Believe me, you are not alone!
from the article: An end to the agony