"you can`t make nice with your adversaries if they want to destroy you" No, you can't, but you can change their attitudes so that they don't want to destroy you anymore and instead become your friends; that's the only way to lasting peace. In the end, Israel is no match for a billion Arabs, and Europe and the US are sooner or later going to tire of supporting Israel. In addition, there is a limit to the kinds of actions that are justified by self-defense. In the end, I have no idea what the right thing to do is, but the current policies are neither just nor effective.
EU's Tusk warns Turkey to cut refugee flow (Reuters)
from the article: Holocaust remembrance is a boon for Israeli propaganda