The parallells you describe are in my view a bit exagerated. Is it right to demand more from Israel than other nations? However I believe Israel should go in exact the opposite direction. If more Israelis would regard the Palestinians as humans, see and show respect for their sufferings. (Consider them as not "brothers" but at least cousins. In fact it seems that 40 % of the Palestinians are actually genetically related to us jews.) If more of us would respect them - maybe more of "them" would respect us?
Several injured after Jerusalem protest march against Al-Aqsa restrictions dispersed (Haaretz)
from the article: Israel’s Greatest Loss: Its Moral Imagination