I understand. What you are saying, Daniel, is that the writer and her husband are "yefe nefesh", i.e. "beautiful souls", a derogatory Israeli term for people who have moral standards, who don't agree to live with full civil rights while their neighbors are subject to martial law, people who distinguish between integration and apartheid. That makes you an "ugly soul", doesn't it?
Palestinians call general strike in J'lem Old City over police conduct, settler violence (Haaretz)
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