Your'e bacally arguing moral equivalence. So why the focus on Israel? Why are Israel's actions those to be exclusively condemned? What about Jihadists who openly claim their desire to slaughter civilians? Israelis confront the "bitter truth" every day, with a free press and national soul-searching regarding casualties on the other side. Look sincerely at both sides, tactics and strategy.
from the article: Qana villagers refute IDF claims building fell hours after strike