Rebecca Spence, The Forward: Latest Bar Mitzvah fad? Going green, but at a price
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Title:Tzeniut
Name:Ben Azzai
City: LondonState: UK
A traditional bar mitzvah seudah was a family meal at home with the rabbi speaking to the boy about his new responsibilities. If this has come to spending from $30,000 to $500,000, someone has lost the plot. Bas Mitzvah, a recent innovation, was also a family gathering at home, not a debutant ball. We have lost the sense of modesty that is so basic to all Jewish values. `What does the L-rd want from you...to walk modestly with the L-rd your G-d.`