| Not everyone who has suffered abuse is necessarily an abuser: and people can have very high moral standard to show off and still be abusers to their families! I am 56 years old and had to sever my relations with my sister and father before he died, not even being sad for his death, since he insulted me to the last moment, being jealous for so many untold reasons that I never understood. My mother was a carpet who accepted high violence against me; and my sister did the same against her children. One has to stop this:my wife was sick after giving birth to our child and I decided I would not let her kill our daughter, she even slapped her once (she was one year and a half old!) and I was compelled to have my wife committed, after that she committed suicide. My mother in law who was also a very abusive mother never forgave me, saving my children`s life on their mother expense. Before she became sick she had been a lovely wife, so one never knows when and where it may happen |
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