Haaretz Staff and Channel 10: Israeli Bat Mitzvahs are becoming increasingly extravagant
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Title:more bar than mitzvah
Name:Elihu Stone
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My son is being bar-mitzvah nest week. I thnik it importsnt to buck the trend toward extravagance by focusing on the original meaning of this rite of passage and less on the trappings of materialism that have become a trap for many. It is manifestly unfair to subject young adults to a life of `keeping-up-with-the Cohens` and to rob them of a self-esteem they can earn based on character and values.