| The point of this Rabbi is that we must look to our Father in Heaven to make our shidduch, but we have to be prepared to commit! The sweets only remind us that we must be confident that we will find our partner and have candies thrown at us at our aufruf. When someone asked the Steipler Gaon why he never found his bashert, the Gaon replied, `You did find her/him but you passed her/him by.` You have to be realistic. |
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